How adolescents make choices

Haven't you thought this through?!

You hear yourself saying it to a teenager you're responsible for: Haven't you thought this through?! They've made a choice, the consequences aren't great, and now they're getting an earful. They should have thought it through better.

And in some cases, that's absolutely true. But in many cases, they did think it through. They weighed their options, considered different factors... and still made the choice that now seems questionable. The misunderstanding comes from the fact that teenagers and adults often have different priorities. And when priorities differ, decisions do too.

This presentation takes you through the key differences between how teenagers make decisions and how adults do. At the same time, it also holds up a mirror—because, let's be honest, adults aren't always as rational as they like to think when it comes to making choices either. You might believe that your well-thought-out adult reasoning is airtight... but if only that were true.

Alongside this, Aletta Smits not only explains how the teenage brain works differently but also provides practical tips on how to help young people navigate the decisions they face.

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Super goed aangepast aan de zaal! We waren met een klein groepje dus Aletta besloot de groep meer de leiding te geven over de inhoud. Dit werkte echt goed. Super interessant en leuk! Kei-eerlijk, dat is fijn
Waddinxveen - 2026-05-07
Met een tikje humor veel onderwerpen omtrent keuzes herkenbaar gemaakt om inzicht te krijgen in het brein van een puber
Waddinxveen - 2026-05-07
Wat een geweldig mens, zo leuk en duidelijk wat een humor ook top dank u wel
Waddinxveen - 2026-05-07

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